Archive for the ‘Emotional Intelligence’ Category

Turn bad news into good

Rain

  Recognize the line? New York, New York. Frank Sinatra. Am I right? Sorry to say, the following has absolutely nothing to do with New York, New York or Ol’ Blue Eyes… Or does it? Read on if you like. Decide for yourself. I walked by one of those newspaper boxes today. There was this outrageous […]

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How to improve your perception of others in order to achieve better results?

Group of friends talking

  Perhaps the best way to deal with people is to remind ourselves of an old Barbra Streisand song that topped the charts several decades ago.  The song “People… needing other people… are the luckiest people…” is still an appropriate concept in this day and age. If we were to stop for a moment and […]

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How to get rid of problems

Girl holding hands in heart shape at beach

  What problem would you like to get rid of in your life? Take that one you just thought of. Go with that. I expect you’ve already given plenty of thought to how it could be solved. Or you’ve given mental energy to how the problem or issue could be cleared up. And, right now, […]

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Problems are a perception based on our feeling stuck

Sad-woman

Problems are just a perception based on our feeling stuck, challenged, or in lack. So in actuality let’s say the problem is just an opportunity for us to see what we are holding in mind. By changing our focus towards what we really would like to achieve or experience, we begin to think from a […]

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Is Your Behavior Like That of a Master?

How to Win - 3 Arrows of Advice

Lester told us to make our behavior like that of a Master. Are you doing that? If not, jump on that “I can’t” bug right now. Don’t smash it. Just let it go. Let go of believing it’s impossible to make your behavior like that of a Master. Does it sound too hard to make […]

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Only the Best!!!

“It won’t work!”  “It can’t work!”  “No way, no how!”   So basically what we are really holding in mind, is, “What’s the worst that can happen?”  Clearly this is not how an article should begin if it is titled Only the Best.  And yet, this is what most of us are doing, most of the […]

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Do You Realize Your Power?

Do you realize the amazingly powerful skills you have right now? Actually the word amazing doesn’t even begin to cover the incredible skills you have at your fingertips, available for you to put to use right now.  Are you fully aware of it?  Maybe you don’t feel like you have these exceptional, really mind blowing […]

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How to Effectively Communicate

Communication is probably one of the most important aspects of being human. Communication is more than just speaking or writing.  Communication is for the purpose of engaging our senses in a manner that communicates information.  Communication exists in many forms.  Writing, speaking, teaching, artistic expressions such as: crafting, painting, dancing, playing a musical instrument, and […]

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Avoid = Avoiding

Think about an Attachment and we may experience a nice warm-fuzzy feeling.  We are of course attached to our family, our homes, our relationships, money, our beautiful stuff, and so forth.  Think about an Aversion and what happens – instantly we are facing some resistance.  If you are paying attention you’ll instantly notice a clutch […]

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Healing the Past…

Is it even possible to completely and fully heal the past?  Well the good news is yes it is possible for us to heal any hurt; any wound; any tear of sadness or disappointment that we have ever experienced.  In order for us to be able to fully transform words of anger, rage, or humiliation […]

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