Is it difficult to accept credit for a job well-done?

There are many sides to the issue of credit.  This can be a huge concern for some, as the ego has a tendency to want to take credit for everything and then moves us into feeling guilty.  This cycle is known as the “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda” syndrome.  If we are avoiding accepting credit it is […]

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Intimidated by others… trust this isn’t helping you to be happy

If we are intimidated for any reason, it certainly makes it unnecessarily difficult to be happy.  Realistically, intimidation is allowing our fears to influence us in a negative manner.  When we are intimidated, we are also on some level deciding that the other person is more powerful.  If this is what we are holding in […]

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A new view on Leadership

Leaders exist in all walks of life.  More importantly, everyone has the potential of acting in a leadership position.  We can all be more successful by establishing a positive attitude and also by having an attitude of gratitude. Leadership includes vitality, charm, being flexible and also having a good sense of humor. It also includes […]

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Letting go of struggling…

Have you ever thought to yourself, “I really need to let this go…” and yet continued to hold onto the mind chatter.  Perhaps continuing to complain, blame, or possibly wonder what to do about a situation that happened sometime in the past.  By acting in this manner, you are preventing yourself from moving forward.  Maybe […]

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In Control – Out of Control

Are you in control?  Well let’s see…  Are you trying to figure out what to do regarding bills, relationships, security, or something else?  Are you irritable?  Are you at your perfect weight?  Are you in good health?  Are you frustrated in some way?  Are you sleeping peacefully at night?  If you aren’t in good health, […]

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Disagreeing with others

Do you ever find yourself disagreeing with others?  Or maybe you find yourself disagreeing with yourself?  Perhaps you’ll agree that disagreement is pretty much an indication that we are very much in non-agreement or strongly dislike of something in its current reality.  It is also saying that on some level, we may think that others […]

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Transforming Childhood

The details related to our childhood, and things that we’ve experienced in the past, are still very much running in our subconscious minds.  Our childhood memories are affecting how we are living our lives today.  As children, we may have fallen out of the bed or down a flight of stairs. Or perhaps we fell […]

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Having Successful Relationships

Our emotions and wants in regards to our relationships are indications that we are often not in control.  Furthermore, the “I can’t and I won’t” thoughts that are playing in the background keeps us from taking positive action.  Each “I can’t or I won’t” thought is actually a limitation.  These limiting thoughts are the primary […]

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What is the biggest obstacle that keeps us from accomplishing our goals?

If we asked ourselves what is keeping me from accomplishing my goals, we would immediately see a few things in the way.  We may instantly see or sense fear or resistance.  Another factor may include believing, “I can’t!”  By holding onto fear and resistance, or having beliefs stating I can’t, will definitely prevent us from […]

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DIY: Self-Improvement 101

When most people think of DIY, they conjure up projects that are either crafty or perhaps an outlet for personal talents.  Most people really don’t usually consider self-improvement as a DIY project.  And realistically, that’s exactly what self-improvement is all about.  When we look at situations within our lives and decide we would like to […]

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