Transforming Childhood

The details related to our childhood, and things that we’ve experienced in the past, are still very much running in our subconscious minds.  Our childhood memories are affecting how we are living our lives today.  As children, we may have fallen out of the bed or down a flight of stairs. Or perhaps we fell […]

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Having Successful Relationships

Our emotions and wants in regards to our relationships are indications that we are often not in control.  Furthermore, the “I can’t and I won’t” thoughts that are playing in the background keeps us from taking positive action.  Each “I can’t or I won’t” thought is actually a limitation.  These limiting thoughts are the primary […]

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What is the biggest obstacle that keeps us from accomplishing our goals?

If we asked ourselves what is keeping me from accomplishing my goals, we would immediately see a few things in the way.  We may instantly see or sense fear or resistance.  Another factor may include believing, “I can’t!”  By holding onto fear and resistance, or having beliefs stating I can’t, will definitely prevent us from […]

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DIY: Self-Improvement 101

When most people think of DIY, they conjure up projects that are either crafty or perhaps an outlet for personal talents.  Most people really don’t usually consider self-improvement as a DIY project.  And realistically, that’s exactly what self-improvement is all about.  When we look at situations within our lives and decide we would like to […]

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What is change? And why are we so afraid of making changes? – Part II

Change is only for the purpose of making better decisions that agrees with what we are interested in doing or having, or not doing or not having.  If we look at the process of change more closely, logically we can see that some changes require more time and consideration.  Certainly things like planning to relocate, […]

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What is change? And why are we so afraid of making changes? – Part I

In reality the process of “changing” is simply making a decision to do something other than what we are currently doing.  Change is a reflection of current attitudes.  Sometimes we choose to make changes that are relatively simple like deciding where to eat or what to order.  Surely deciding where to go to lunch is […]

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If we aren’t achieving our goals, maybe we need a different approach

When we aren’t getting our intentions or achieving our goals, we need to accept that there are limitations and excuses in the way.  At times when we aren’t achieving our goals isn’t meant for us to veer off course and assume the method doesn’t work.  What doesn’t work is moving into frustration, blame, disapproval or […]

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More on Happiness: Myth… Fiction…or Fate!

What is your belief of what happiness really is?  Is happiness some sort of myth or fictional reality that we only get to experience for brief periods of time and then it disappears? Is happiness only available to us for limited times?  More and more folks are coming to understand “what happiness is” and where […]

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ANGER…

This is a subject none of likes to discuss.  We try to pretend we don’t get angry.  We don’t like to face our anger or rage because this is showing us our really intense negative feelings.  In anger we are venting, expressing, and brooding.  We are avoiding taking responsibility for what is currently happening.  We […]

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When the love is complete…

“When there are problems, if we would love more, they would disappear.  When the love is complete, the problem dissolves immediately!” ~ Lester Levenson When the love is complete, always includes a positive resolution.  There is no uncertainty.  There is no ambiguity.  There are no unresolved issues.  Everything is in perfect harmony.  We have all […]

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