Looking For Love?

Looking For Love?

Looking for love where it isn’t?

Larry Crane explains that most people are playing a game called “I love you if you do what I want. And if you don’t do what I want, well then I don’t want anything to do with you.”

How loving is that?

The fact being, we have all done this. Another fact is none of us likes to admit it that at times we are manipulating, which is our wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe and secure. 

Because at times we want others to give us something that exists within our own being, and it only creates tension within our relationships. You can be certain if you are demanding love from anyone, it will result in their pulling away from you. 

The same is true when they are seeking for us to give them love.

The result is when someone pulls away, we then feel rejected. Next, we begin to disapprove of ourselves and also disapprove of the other person because we believe they rejected us. Nothing positive is accomplished when we are acting in this manner.

Many people believe that in order to have love, they have to get it from another or do something for it.

Many of us also believe that we need others to give to us things, (i.e. love, permission, happiness, material objects, experiences, etc.) otherwise we won’t have these things or be able to experience these realities for ourselves. 

We have been confused about who exactly is the boss.

Relying on, or expecting others to give us what already exists within each of us, is silly. It also points out that we have forgotten that what we have or experience truly originates within each of us. In order for something good or bad to occur, we had to have thought about it at some previous time.

We spend great amounts of time thinking and believing that if we want something bad enough it will appear.

Wanting is actually what is preventing us from achieving our goals. Wanting is causing us to feel deprived in some way. Our wanting is actually our limited thinking creating the lack in the first place. 

Wanting is lusting for something or someone outside of ourselves and hoping this person or thing can fix us.

And by believing that we need others (things) to fix us, or that we need someone outside of us to give us permission on what we can or cannot have, is showing that what we are feeling is contingent upon another’s viewpoint. 

This is playing a fool’s game. This game causes us to feel unworthy to receive abundance.

Surely you can see how these limiting choices cause us to feel uncomfortable about ourselves and our relationships with others. We often seek the advice or recommendations of others and hope they will give us the answers to what we should do. This process is known as ‘figuring it out’ and giving up your power to choose for yourself.

Many of us still believe that our parents, spouse, boss, or other authority figures get to decide what we can have or experience. By relying on others, we are disempowering ourselves. This is another way that causes us to feel undeserving. 

This way of approaching life isn’t helpful as it places the responsibility of our being happy on another’s opinion.

If the other disagrees or says ‘No’ to us, then we are pretty much up a creek without a paddle. We feel immensely discouraged and frustrated. We don’t see that our holding in mind or believing that we need another to tell us what to do is creating a lack. 

Believing that you can’t or shouldn’t feel good about yourself or perhaps you shouldn’t try something new is creating very limited results. Believing that we can’t or shouldn’t is settling. 

We then further believe, “There is nothing we can do to change the situation or nothing we can do to change how we feel about what happened” (and we are stuck).

This begins a downward spiral causing us to feel even worse about ourselves and our circumstances.

Please realize that the one who caused all of this drama to occur is us. We did it and have been doing this same thing for quite some time.

It’s time to take responsibility for what we are creating.

The reality is, that we are the only ones denying ourselves the opportunity to choose ‘what is right’ for ourselves. We may not like to see it, but if we look closely at our habit of asking others what we can have, we have to first believe we lack. 

If someone says no to us, we should look to see what we held in mind to create that outcome. If we are persistent in looking for the cause of what we created, we will find that it was our thought(s) at some previous time. 

We are all communicating by sending and receiving energy from each other. If someone says no to us, it is only because they are picking up our subconscious thoughts. They told us “No” quite simply because we weren’t feeling confident, deserving, or worthy. Their response is what we are holding in mind, either consciously or unconsciously.

Whatever we are holding in mind becomes the reality or out-projection of what is created on the physical plane.

If you would like to experience better results and feeling more love for yourself, begin by holding in mind a peaceful and harmonious outcome at all times. Have a positive intention for everything you do. 

Fill yourself with love and approval on a regular basis. This way you won’t have to rely on getting love from others.

Be willing to try and learn new things. Love yourself, and all of the answers that you are seeking will become available to you. Learn to trust yourself. Learn to really like the person you are today. These are tremendous gains if you will allow yourself to experience this way of living.

Remember nothing negative ever results from being positive or loving.

Get involved. Sharing the method with others will greatly offer you and the folks you are sharing with an opportunity to experience real love.

Allow others to have the method more than you want approval, control, or safety. Doing an attachment and aversion exercise on sharing the method will help you to come from a more loving place. 

Be sure to share your personal gains and how releasing has enriched your life. After all, that’s what we’re all looking for. But most people don’t know where to find it. You have the answer every human on the planet is looking for. How loving is it, to keep it to yourself?

Where would we be today if Lester and Larry had not shared what they knew to be true with each and every one of us?

That’s right. We’d be up a creek without a paddle.

Allow others to benefit in a wonderful and prosperous way as you have. Love is the answer! Share the love!

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Change Your Energy!

Change Your Energy!

”Change Your Energy For the New Year”

The first step to attract what you want is to change or shift your energy. Everything in this world is made up of energy, including us. Other people pick up on your energy. If it’s positive you’ll attract positive people into your life. If you have negative energy, you’ll always attract negative people and negative situations into your life. If you find that you are getting exactly what you don’t want or if you find that you are not getting what you want then there’s a very good chance that you’re simply sending out the wrong energy. In the end you’ll attract what corresponds to your energy. Negative energy attracts negative situations. Positive energy attracts positive situations. It’s really that simple. So if you’re not getting what you want— you’re likely sending out the wrong energy.

Change your energy and you’ll likely start getting what you want. Just what is your energy? Your energy is based on your thoughts and beliefs. Your subconscious mind picks up on your thoughts and beliefs and goes out and creates situations that correspond to your thoughts and beliefs. Other people pick up your energy on a subconscious level. They’re not consciously aware of your energy but they just develop a feeling about you based on your energy. If you have negative energy you’ll attract negative people and negative situations. At the same time you’ll repel positive people and positive situations. This is not a good combination if you want to create a positive and successful life. 

How does it all work? If you constantly think of the worst, if you find that you are regularly negative, if you don’t believe that you can ever achieve anything, if you don’t believe that anybody can be good, if you constantly complain, if you always see the worst in situations, if you regularly put others down, if you’re just a negative person you will develop negative energy and in the end you’ll only attract more negative situations into your life. So what do you do? How do you turn things around? Start Releasing and it will change the way you see things and begin eliminating the negative thoughts and negative beliefs. 

This will help change your energy so that you begin to attract what you want. This means that you will Release on positive situations. You will find that things will work out: looking for solutions instead of complaining, being more understanding by Releasing instead of getting angry. By Releasing you will look at things from a different perspective, embrace changes and look for opportunities instead of CHANGE YOUR ENERGY! 40 focusing on the problems and no longer believing that the worst will happen. Life is a decision. Decide to Release all situations and you will continually change the way you think and see things. 

You’ll begin to naturally attract more positive situations into your life. You may have heard it before: you are what you attract. And if you are not getting what you want out of life it’s time to change the way you think and act. By Releasing you will be able to change your energy and attract better, positive situations into your life while creating and attracting what you want. During the day observe how you respond to situations. See how you react to things you don’t like, or just to situations in general. Pay attention to the comments you make to friends, colleagues and relatives. • Are they positive or negative? • 

Do you always point out the negative? • Do you complain or think of the worst? • If something goes wrong do you get angry, blame somebody, or have a series of negative thoughts? Or do you focus on a solution, and start Releasing and create the changes that you want? If you find that you have a negative reaction, then you’re only creating more negative energy and attracting more negative situations. Start changing how you think. Releasing creates positive thoughts and positive situations. By Releasing you will find solutions and you’ll begin attracting more positive situations into your life

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You Need a Powerful Plan for Success!

You Need a Powerful Plan for Success!


“Wishing won’t make you successful”

You will never succeed so long as you have subconscious programs holding you back. You will sabotage your success again and again, no matter how much effort or willpower you exert.

What you need is a plan based on a PROVEN METHOD—a habit you can develop and master, which will lead you to success in all areas of your life. Developing this one very specific habit will be your key—your ultimate “inner strategy” for long-term success in all areas of your life. RELEASING is this habit.


Releasing is the “ultimate action” you will ever take. It is the most effective thing you can do to move you powerfully in the direction of highest achievement, strongest leadership, most radiant health, lasting happiness and financial freedom. As you begin practicing Releasing, you will immediately begin noticing positive shifts in the way you think, feel and act. You will find yourself taking actions and making decisions based on a new, freer, more positive self-concept, which was impossible before you released the old, limiting image you held of yourself in your subconscious mind.


This simple strategy called Releasing is the most effective technique ever developed for unleashing our highest “success qualities.” It works at the level of the “inner”—of which your outer life is but a mere reflection. Just as combing your hair will result in an immediate shift in your reflection in a mirror, so too will shifting your inner mind and mental condition create an instant shift in your life.


Don’t like the way you start and stop projects—sabotaging your success in a very predictable cycle? Take the most effective action there is—RELEASING.

Don’t like the way you make money only to have it burn a hole in your pocket before you can accumulate anything significant? Take the most effective action there is–RELEASING.

In the new 90 Day Quiet Your Mind program, you will get a powerful plan for your money success and never burn a hole in your pocket.

Don’t like the way you predictably sabotage the love in your relationships? Take the most effective action there is—RELEASING.

Have a habit—smoking, overeating, drinking, gambling, complaining, etc.—that you just can’t seem to stop using willpower? Take the most effective action there is—RELEASING.

Have a stubborn health issue and you’ve tried everything to overcome it to no avail? Take the most effective action there is—RELEASING.


Stop wasting your will and effort in ineffective directions. You MUST ALWAYS make an “inner shift” to create any lasting outer change in your life experience. Releasing makes this inner shift at the deepest levels and does so quickly and easily. It is foolproof.


As you see the contents of your mind (just like reading a menu) and apply Releasing to the limits, patterns and painful, negative emotions—they dissolve—instantly.


The most successful business people in the world, such as Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, and Donald Trump, are constantly tapping into several core habits and traits that will make any of us successful, if we develop these traits:

1.They are emotionally intelligent. Releasing is the most effective action you can take to increase your emotional intelligence.

2.They are emotionally resilient. Releasing is the most effective action you can take to increase your natural, emotional resiliency and inner balance.

3.They take risks. Releasing is the most effective action you can take to uncover your natural courageousness and fearlessness.

4.They have outstanding discrimination. Releasing is the most effective action you can take to open up your discrimination and ability to see and think clearly—even when under pressure.

5.They have clear intuition. Releasing is the most effective action you can take to open up your intuition and inner knowing.

6.They take immediate, effective ACTION when prompted from within. Releasing is the most effective action you can take to eliminate the resistance to taking immediate, effective action.

7.They are positive. Releasing is the most effective action you can take to eliminate negative thinking at its root—uncovering your natural ability to be positive in all situations despite outer circumstances.

8.They are master communicators. Releasing is the most effective action you can take to uncover your natural ability to effectively communicate.

9.They are inspired. Releasing is the most effective action you can take to uncover an unlimited wellspring of natural and spontaneous creativity, inspiration and enthusiasm.

These nine principles are your keys to leading a happy, successful life—emotionally, financially, in all your relationships, with your health and wellbeing, and in your work, career and contribution to others.


If you have not mastered these skills, you have not mastered life. If you wish to master these skills, there is only one ability you need to master—the ability to “let go” (at will) of the patterns, programs, thoughts, concepts, behaviors and limits you have programmed into your subconscious mind. The most effective way to do this is through Releasing via the Release Technique.


Releasing is the only kind of success training or condition you truly need. If you want to condition yourself—condition yourself to Release consistently throughout your day. If you want to train yourself—train yourself in the habit of letting go of negativity as it arises, instead of suppressing it, coping with it, venting/expressing it, or escaping from it.


As you develop the habit of Releasing moment by moment, you will quickly find each of the nine primary keys to success unfolding for you as naturally as breathing.

You may have read hundreds of success, leadership, self-improvement and wealth-building books. You may have taken hundreds of such courses. But how many of them address the ROOT—the core of the problem—which is always the lacking, limited and almost always conflicting inner thoughts, patterns and beliefs that hold you back?


Almost none of them do. Or, if they do, they really don’t tell you HOW to eliminate these patterns. They just talk “at you,” telling you to “think positive,” stop thinking negative,” use willpower,” “take these actions,” etc… but when you have subconscious self-sabotage programs running, all the willpower and all the intellectual knowledge of the “right actions” you need to take are WORTHLESS. That’s right. Completely worthless.


If you looked in the mirror and you saw your hair was messed up, would you start fussing with the mirror, trying to change the reflection? Of course not. You would simply comb or brush your hair. In the same way, you need to create an inner shift—developing the ONE POWERFUL HABIT that will shift EVERYTHING in your life. And, that habit is using the Release Technique consistently.

What is it?

It is a way to rid yourself of any negative emotions easily and painlessly, on the spot—and gain health, wealth and happiness beyond your wildest imagination.

How does it work?

It works by pulling up the “menu of your mind” noting the contents and noting the underlying “roots” which are generating interference, limitation and self–sabotage. This is fast, easy and simple to do. Then, the course shows you how to STRIKE these roots, thus falling entire structures of limiting and lacking thought-structures that have held you back your entire life. What’s left does not require any kind of “positive affirmations” or “programming,” as our natural state is already one of health, happiness, success, clarity, strength and freedom. We need only eliminate the interference by first SEEING it operating, then striking the ROOT causes of this interference. No other course, method or technique strikes the root as the Release Technique does.

Why does it work?

It works because it does not attempt to “hack at the branches.” For instance, a symptom of an inner mental/emotional conflict is often overeating. This is just a branch—a sign or symptom of a deeper issue. The root could be an underlying fear or a suppressed guilt. And, that fear or suppressed guilt has another, even more primary root, which, when released, will drop the hard, negative feelings…drop the negative thoughts generated by those feelings…and drop the harmful behaviors and actions generated by those thoughts.

Will it work for me?

Yes. We guarantee it. We have taught it to five-year-olds. We have taught it to ninety-year-olds. You can learn and master the Release Technique and begin seeing all your fears, worries, hang-ups, and self-sabotaging and limiting behaviors melt away right before your eyes—as you witness a natural unfolding and uncovering of the nine core traits of highly successful people. As you eliminate the blocks to having success, what’s left over? Success without effort!


If you are ready to finally take charge of your life, employing a radically effective system of success that is PROVEN and SCIENTIFICALLY VALIDATED by Harvard and Columbia Medical School researchers, then it is time to make Releasing your first action. If you are tired of working hard all your life and not meeting with the success you want and feel you deserve, then you absolutely must learn the Release Technique without delay.


It is time to stop wasting so much time and effort spinning your wheels. Your subconscious programs will NEVER let you move forward. Or, if they do, they will only rip you right back into the parameters of your programmed “success thermostat” a very short while after you will yourself past those parameters, as if someone snapped you back by your suspenders.


If you want lasting success, health and happiness, then you must “reset” your success thermostat for greater success in these areas. No “outer” change will ever last, without making the primary inner change. Any habits created by willpower will rarely “stick” because the underlying “roots” holding that pattern in place will remain and will pull you right back into the same old rut once the willpower stops. You need a fundamental ROOT change, which the Release Technique provides.

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It seems like some people are impossible to please…especially when it comes to romantic relationships!

One moment you’re talking and laughing.

The next minute your partner is glaring at you in stony silence or carping at you for some inconsequential thing…when you’ve done nothing at all!

As these episodes become more frequent, you start to get on edge.

Desperate not to tip the boat, you go above and beyond to make your partner happy.

You buy expensive gifts.

You avoid any triggers you know would instigate an argument.

You nod silently as you’re berated for a minor offense.

But none of these actions improve your relationship…in fact, they only make it worse!

That’s because if you go out of your way to make your partner happy, you’ll start to feel resentful.

And your partner can sense this resentment, if only at a subconscious level.

According to the law of attraction, energy attracts like energy. Lower vibration energies like anger and resentment will elicit similar attitudes in your lover.

When a problem occurs in your relationship, it’s only natural to panic. You like everything to run harmoniously.

So you rack your brain to come up with solutions.

But there’s a better way.

First, you must love yourself. When you “seek out” love, you’re at the mercy of external forces. But when you look within, you’re in the driver’s seat.

As you start to love yourself, others—including your significant other—WILL take note.

Once you have self-love mastered, you’ll find it easier to love others.

Then, instead of straining to “fix” your relationship problems, surrender yourself to feelings of LOVE for your partner.

“But of course I love my partner!” you protest. “That’s why I’m working so hard to stay together!”

All too often, though, love gets tangled up with negative emotions such as anger and neediness.

Trying extra hard to please your partner may just be fear masquerading as love—

fear of abandonment, fear of conflict, fear of failure.

Unconditional love does not depend on external factors such as your lover’s acceptance and approval. It simply is.

So the next time your partner gets angry because the dishes aren’t done or the snow isn’t shoveled, don’t despair.

Instead, allow LOVE to gently wash over the problem, untangling the knots.

With the Release Technique, learn to cleanse yourself of any negative emotions surrounding your relationship and replace them with pure, unadulterated love.

You’ll soon discover that much of the struggle in your relationship derives from wanting something from your significant other. The instant you learn to abandon this desire and simply give love, everything will flow so much smoother.

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As user A.C. reports, “This is the easiest, most comprehensive, most effective method I have ever learned… releasing! Since beginning the course, I have found: My 26 year marriage is BETTER THAN EVER. Almost all struggle and power plays have simply dissipated into thin air, and my husband is now more present and attentive than ever. He even asked me for a Valentine’s Date! Hasn’t happened in forever.”

You can apply this technique to any issue you are facing, not just those associated with romantic relationships.

Struggling to move up in your career?

LOVE is the answer.

Suffering from an unexplained medical condition?

LOVE might be the key.

It’s time to release all the blockages in your life so you can start living a joy-filled existence fueled by the force of LOVE.