Enjoy loving relationships this Holiday Season.

Enjoy loving relationships this Holiday Season.

The Holidays often put us face-to-face with our most challenging and dysfunctional relationships.

Gatherings force us to be with people we avoid the rest of the year. Gift-giving (and receiving) is loaded with “should,” “have to” and judgments of deserving. Expectations about the Season drudge up old resentments, regrets, and even depression.

As releasers, it’s the perfect time to examine and correct our non-loving attitude when it comes to “others.” What we think about “them” is a mirror for us to see what we unconsciously think about ourselves.

Our emotions and wants when it comes to our relationships are indications that we feel out of control. Furthermore, the “I can’t” and “I won’t” thoughts that are playing in the background keep us from taking positive action.

Each “I can’t” is really an “I won’t.” It’s a way of playing the helpless victim, blaming others instead of taking responsibility for what happens to us.

Blaming others is nothing more than limiting thought. These limiting thought patterns are the primary factors that keep us creating unhealthy relationships over and over again.

Why? Because we’re stuck in fear and we want to avoid it. What we resist persists and we continue holding in mind fear … which only brings into our awareness more people and things to be afraid of.

The result is, we feel even more unsafe and out of control because we won’t look at and accept that it’s only our thinking that has created the whole mess. Instead, we get stuck trying to figure out how to change our outer circumstances – and fool ourselves into believing we don’t know what to do about it.
The truth is, nothing “out there” can change (for long) until we change our inner picture.

Until we take this premise for checking and prove it to ourselves, we will continue unconsciously creating relationships that are somewhat dysfunctional – because they’re projected from dysfunctional (limited) thinking.

If we want to have healthy, successful relationships “out there,” we first need to clean up our unloving relationship with our Self.

How do we do this? We stop it! Stop beating ourselves down. Stop believing we don’t deserve. Stop hating ourselves because we’re not good enough yet …

Most importantly, we decide to clear out all our non-loving feelings by releasing.

Once we have love inside, we see all our relationships transform into love. Set a goal for the outcome we want to experience and release any attachments or aversions. Only when we identify what we would like to experience in life and commit to releasing our thoughts about it, can we begin creating better results – better relationships. 

Releasing is an inside job. Love within will reflect love “out there.” Change our thinking and we change our circumstances. If we think we can, we can! And, if we think we can’t, we can’t! This is the time to prove it out.

By stepping off of the emotional rollercoaster (that we have created)… by reviewing our belief system… and choosing to do something different, we will experience better relationships in our life.

But only when we take total responsibility for our relationship with our Self, can we begin to change the negative patterns that we are experiencing in our relationships with others. Looking at the root source of how we feel about our Self, allows us to overcome unhealthy tendencies in our relationships. 

The way to change unhealthy patterns is to make the unconscious habits, conscious — to see them running for ourselves.
Once we catch the automatic behavior running and see how it affects our life, we can make a different decision on the spot.

If we’re not willing to do the work and release, the unconscious programming will continue to run undetected, forever.

Our relationships reveal a wealth of information to us; often misinterpreted. We would all like to experience being in peaceful and harmonious relationships but in all honesty, we aren’t used to being at peace. So, how is it possible for us to have peaceful and successful relationships?

In truth, many of us never really learned where real love and happiness comes from. Although we don’t care to admit this, many of us are holding non-loving thoughts about the folks in our lives. Even the ones we say we love.

And it’s only our negative, non-loving thoughts that prevent us from having and enjoying successful relationships.

So why not decide to use this holiday season to get loving, from here on out? It’s the best gift you’ll ever give (and receive from) yourself. You can also give others the gift of self-love by encouraging them to learn to release during the Living In Abundance Telecourse, Dec. 2nd – 11th. 

As a bonus, if you invite someone (who has never taken a live course before) to the Living In Abundance Course, you get to take the course for only $250, when they register.

The course allows all of us to learn to use releasing in the most powerful and effective way for total life transformation. It gives all of us the tools, support, and opportunity to overcome any negative pattern(s) that we may be experiencing in our relationships and our life.

Imagine what your life would be like if you and everyone in your life were proficient at releasing! This two-weekend course will help you easily turn your life from one of frustration, into a life of joy. And you’ll be giving the people you love the ability to be empowered to change their own life.

It all comes down to your decision. 

Make a decision to change your unhealthy relationships during the holidays. Make a decision to be done with the negative patterns that have limited you from experiencing your true happiness. Make a decision to share your love of releasing, just like you’d recommend a movie you enjoyed.

Make a decision for love and releasing, and you’ll find yourself with all the love, control, and safety you could ever want this Holiday Season, and into the New Year!

Love,
The Release Technique Team

Change Your Energy!

Change Your Energy!

”Change Your Energy For the New Year”

The first step to attract what you want is to change or shift your energy. Everything in this world is made up of energy, including us. Other people pick up on your energy. If it’s positive you’ll attract positive people into your life. If you have negative energy, you’ll always attract negative people and negative situations into your life. If you find that you are getting exactly what you don’t want or if you find that you are not getting what you want then there’s a very good chance that you’re simply sending out the wrong energy. In the end you’ll attract what corresponds to your energy. Negative energy attracts negative situations. Positive energy attracts positive situations. It’s really that simple. So if you’re not getting what you want— you’re likely sending out the wrong energy.

Change your energy and you’ll likely start getting what you want. Just what is your energy? Your energy is based on your thoughts and beliefs. Your subconscious mind picks up on your thoughts and beliefs and goes out and creates situations that correspond to your thoughts and beliefs. Other people pick up your energy on a subconscious level. They’re not consciously aware of your energy but they just develop a feeling about you based on your energy. If you have negative energy you’ll attract negative people and negative situations. At the same time you’ll repel positive people and positive situations. This is not a good combination if you want to create a positive and successful life. 

How does it all work? If you constantly think of the worst, if you find that you are regularly negative, if you don’t believe that you can ever achieve anything, if you don’t believe that anybody can be good, if you constantly complain, if you always see the worst in situations, if you regularly put others down, if you’re just a negative person you will develop negative energy and in the end you’ll only attract more negative situations into your life. So what do you do? How do you turn things around? Start Releasing and it will change the way you see things and begin eliminating the negative thoughts and negative beliefs. 

This will help change your energy so that you begin to attract what you want. This means that you will Release on positive situations. You will find that things will work out: looking for solutions instead of complaining, being more understanding by Releasing instead of getting angry. By Releasing you will look at things from a different perspective, embrace changes and look for opportunities instead of CHANGE YOUR ENERGY! 40 focusing on the problems and no longer believing that the worst will happen. Life is a decision. Decide to Release all situations and you will continually change the way you think and see things. 

You’ll begin to naturally attract more positive situations into your life. You may have heard it before: you are what you attract. And if you are not getting what you want out of life it’s time to change the way you think and act. By Releasing you will be able to change your energy and attract better, positive situations into your life while creating and attracting what you want. During the day observe how you respond to situations. See how you react to things you don’t like, or just to situations in general. Pay attention to the comments you make to friends, colleagues and relatives. • Are they positive or negative? • 

Do you always point out the negative? • Do you complain or think of the worst? • If something goes wrong do you get angry, blame somebody, or have a series of negative thoughts? Or do you focus on a solution, and start Releasing and create the changes that you want? If you find that you have a negative reaction, then you’re only creating more negative energy and attracting more negative situations. Start changing how you think. Releasing creates positive thoughts and positive situations. By Releasing you will find solutions and you’ll begin attracting more positive situations into your life

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Release on Being Positive!

Release on Being Positive!

“Focusing on Being Positive”

This year has been another hard year to focus on being positive. With the Politics , Pandemic and potential Wars it has certainly been a hard year. When we focus on being positive everything feels better. Instead of facing another day by looking at more of what’s wrong, or looking at all there is to-do, let’s begin looking at what makes us truly happy. So clearly, if we would like to experience being more positive, all we need to do is begin looking at things in a different way. Being positive is a decision. Let’s take a minute and welcome happiness into our life right in this moment. Notice it feels pleasant. Also notice that you didn’t have to do anything except decide to look towards being positive. Happiness and positive are our basic nature. By welcoming positive into whatever we are doing, is welcoming positive energy into our awareness. We instantly begin to feel happier, more joyous, and also grateful. If you noticed the first thing that we did to accomplish this reality is that we made a decision to focus on being positive. Positive, happy, success and love are all parts of the same energy. When we are focusing on being positive, we are directing our energy towards feeling happy, successful and loving. Same is true when we feel happy; we are allowing ourselves to experience feeling positive and joyful. These energies go hand in hand. Notice all we did was changed our focus.

Now let’s focus on really making our lives more positive. Let’s begin by having an intention to have, do, or be something that we would like to experience. Each positive intention that we initiate allows us to experience more positive outcomes. There truly are no limitations when we are focused on being positive. By deciding to develop a habit of making better decisions helps us to experience life in a more positive manner. We need to remind ourselves that we are in charge of everything that we experience. Being positive ensures that we are experiencing more and more happiness and joy each and every day. Just by deciding to see and experience things in a positive way, realigns our focus and attention. This also creates a shift within our external reality. By holding in mind that we enjoy the positive changes we are inviting into our life, helps us begin to notice more positive experiences. Maintaining a positive attitude requires a consistent focus, as we all have a tendency to fall back into old and somewhat comfortable patterns. Give yourself permission to step out of your comfort zone and challenge yourself to be positive each day. Each positive step that you take makes it easier for you to take another step. It’s helpful to remember that positive never hurts. Being positive includes: clarity, peacefulness, satisfaction, being gentle and considerate. It’s also includes being kind, calm, joyful, and happy. Please see that being positive is holding in mind only what we would like to experience. Being positive always attracts positive towards us. Remember, that nothing bad ever comes from being positive. Try being for one day and notice the difference in how you feel.

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